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Women Forced to Seek Power,
Not Love
Henry
Makow Ph.D.
Monday Aug 27, 2007
While in Toronto last week, I saw a beautiful young East
Indian woman literally spend eight hours hauling heavy boxes and
furniture. She was moving her brother into a university residence.
"Doesn't your brother have any male friends who could help
him?" I asked her.
"Oh, I'm a great believer in equality," she replied
cheerfully as she hoisted a book shelf.
Equality! What a boon for women! In the bad old days, women wouldn't
be allowed to do hard physical labor like this.
This is a bright girl in a Pre-Med program yet she was so easily
duped to deny her femininity. They told her it was "socially
constructed" and and she had to be "independent"
and now she is ready to repress her biological instincts and stunt
her natural development.
Women were intended to carry children, not pianos. Equal does
not mean identical. We all have a equal right to dignity and fulfillment
but our path is not the same. Men are fulfilled by supporting
and leading a family. Women are fulfilled by devotion to husband
and family and by experiencing their love. (Of course, women can
have careers but they should be secondary to family.)
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The East Indian girl's charm and beauty would inspire many a
man to nest. But with all the study and heavy lifting, her bloom
will fade and she'll gain weight. By the time she graduates, she
won't turn heads any longer.
MALE FRUSTRATION
I hear from men who say most women still have their feminine
instincts but can't overcome societal and family pressure.
Brian, a 29-year old Californian wrote: "Ya can't... understand
the damned frustration I feel about the degradation of the natural
roles of man and woman today. Some days i'm made to feel like
a caveman that refuses to evolve.
"I've never had a problem getting attention from the opposite
sex. I however have never found a real woman who would be one.
My last was a 26-year-old Accounting Major. 2 years we were together.
I knew she was feminist, but who the hell isn't out here. It wasn't,
however, until I met her parents that I saw what I believed to
be the root of it all. It was obvious who ran the house in her
family, her mother. Her father was just a goofy big kid. In her
home she was encouraged to go to school and be independent if
verbally then by example. I could tell that there was no way in
hell she could ever be appreciated [by her parents, friends] as
just a mere homemaker to her family.
"She however inside was a real woman. I treated her like
a man should. I was in control. As I must be in any of my relationships.
She loved me for it. I saw how she looked into my eyes, and when
she was with me she knew who she wanted to be. I think it was
finally pressure from her family and friends that led to the end
of the relationship. ...I suppose what I'm saying is most of the
women I meet do want what I'm trying to give them. They just don't
know how to accept it either in them self or in front of the world."
A lot of men can identify with Brian. They can save valuable
time by checking out the family power structure in advance and
passing over women with possible penis envy.
MUTANTS?
Other women are so sexually confused, can they be called "women"
any longer? They don't know how to love.
I sat down with Greg, a tall, handsome, fit, smart, successful
Toronto contractor and custom builder. He is 40 and a dream catch
for the "oops I forgot to have children" set.
He just ended a three-year relationship with a career woman in
her late 30's due to issues of power and control.
"She wanted to wear the pants and treat me like a servant,"
he said. "She was always calculating who did what for whom,
and what was 'fair and equitable.'"
Now you'd think a woman nearing the end of her fertility would
snap up a man like Greg who wants to put down roots and have a
family. You'd think she'd know how to make him happy. But this
woman didn't. For example, she demanded he nurse her when she
was sick but said he was "on his own" when he was ill.
"As I became more successful, she actually felt threatened.
She was losing control.," said Greg. She talked about having
children but her actions belied her words. Instead of reading
about child rearing, she brought books home about getting the
corner office."
Now she and her unmarried friends sit around bashing men and
complaining about the lack of good men. "Half the people
in my age group are single," Greg says. "It's really
scary."
Men have been feminized. Greg should not have engaged in a power
struggle. He should have said at the outset, "You can have
power or you can have love. You cannot have both. You can be my
right arm or you can leave."
A woman who really loves a man will accept these terms. (She
wants love not power.)This is how marriage takes place. Of course,
he will consult her. He wants her to be happy. We love the people
who love us.
CONCLUSION
In heterosexual marriage, the male wins a woman's trust (i.e.
love) through courtship. In return she gives him the power to
love her. This exchange of power for love is how a man and a woman
become one. It is the psychological key that allows us to grow.
Sex is the symbol of this permanent and exclusive bond.
As I have said, feminism is designed to destabilize society by
undermining heterosexuality and the family unit. Like all aggression,
this perverse assault on gender difference is disguised as an
act of "defence" (of women's and homosexual rights.)
The ultimate goal is a banker-run totalitarian "New World
Order." What we think of as "money" is really central
banker "credit." They want to consolidate their fraudulent
monopoly, eventually controlling you with their "credit"
card in your body.
In order to sabotage marriage and family, women have been duped
to seek power and emasculate men. What women really want is power
expressed as male love. They will get it when they are able to
believe in a man.
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INFOWARS:
BECAUSE THERE'S A WAR ON FOR YOUR MIND
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